Marriage should be made for God and should be based on love and compassion

Marriage should be made for God and should be based on love and compassion

Excerpt from Mr. Adnan Oktar’s A9 TV interview on March 14th, 2015

Some people are honest and some are not. You live for the consent of God, but some people only seek to strike it rich; some people hunt for husbands and marriage. They so hope to find a fool to saddle on. I’m saying this only for some people with that kind of rationale, seeking an opportunity to saddle on. This is very humiliating. Marriage should be for love, mercy, compassion and for God. It should not be with a mentality like, “Let me find a fool to saddle on.” And some want to saddle on as a family and that’s even worse. Some young men are also like that, seeking for a rich girl to become a son-in-law living in his wife's parents' house for free food and all. I’ve seen such men; they are very strange. You’d pity them. They are in their pyjamas and slippers going after his parents in-law, “My dear father, my dear mother.” People despise such people all the time. They humiliate themselves for a dish of food. Even if they were rich, one would never enter into such an insulting situation. But they are like this if there is a lot of money and other interests.

Some hearts are treacherous. Some hearts are holy. Some hearts are rebellious and some hearts are blessed. Women with blessed hearts, their hearts are very beautiful and open to love. Those who are treacherous always grovel. They grovel for no reason. They always hunt for husbands and such. This is very humiliating. You are a grown- up woman, but you want to take shelter somewhere to get yourself looked after, like a cat or any other animal. You don’t have any love or respect or fear of God. All right, marriage is something nice, but it is for the good will of God as an act of worship but you are looking for a fool. This is terrible. For example, there are also young men like this, looking for rich girls and if they are rich, they stick to them like a stamp. This is wrong.

Marriage is not about becoming a burden on or to rub someone. It is also not to steal from a man as a family or it is not to say that you love a girl just to steal her money.

Women are more superior to men in terms of compassion, affection and in meticulousness. Male superiority must be removed

Excerpt from Mr. Adnan Oktar's Live Conversation on A9TV dated November 24th, 2014

-  Mr. Oktar, Mr. Erdoğan gave a speech on giving value to women and said, ‘You cannot bring man and women to an equal position. This is against creation. In business life, you cannot put a woman and a man through the same conditions. You cannot lay the burden of a man on a woman. It was like this in the communist regimes. Men and women are not equal, but they are equivalent. We must emphasize justice. Also you cannot commit violence toward women. And if they get older by your side, you cannot even huff and puff to them.  These are our values. Our religion has given women an authority, maternal authority. I used to kiss the bottom of my mother’s foot and say 'Here I find the smell of the Paradise.’”

ADNAN OKTAR: This is a very nice speech.

It is correct, if the women do hard work that would be an oppression, it is against creation. We have talked about this many times before. This is the perspective of Islam, this is the force of the conscience.

-  ‘They are not equal but they are equivalent’, he says.

ADNAN OKTAR: Now, in that sense, women are more and more superior. They are superior in compassion, mercy, cleaning, punctiliousness, meticulousness, thinking about details. So they are not equal; they should have more and more rights, the superiority of men should be removed. For example, there should be more women in the assembly.  Women should work on light tasks. Men should do the hard work, because his body is suitable for that. So, we should give priority to women. In that way, they are not equal. Women should have more rights. Women should have more advantages. They should be superior in terms of the advantages. When we say they are not equal, it might be misunderstood: It can be understood in both ways, the first meaning is that men are superior to women. That is how it is understood in Europe like this. It is understood in the opposite way. Erdoğan can make a new speech and strengthen this idea. So the superiority of women should be accepted. It should be accepted that women and men are not equal; women are superior. They are more superior in compassion, mercy, love, politeness and in everything, cities are established for women, they are established because of women. The cities are established for women. So, the superiorities of women should be emphasized. But if it is said like that, it is unfinished so it didn’t make the right impact. The examples which are given are not enough. If he explains that with more comprehensive examples, Erdoğan would have more appearances in the press and it would be more impressive. Otherwise it will stay unfinished and it would continue as a negative view and that wouldn’t be good. Because women are more clean, more merciful, more compassionate, more tactful, they think more about details, they are more side with aesthetics, they are more artistic, isn’t that true? True. There is nothing to deny. This is a scientific truth. This should be understood clearly.

For example, in business life, women should be accepted for the jobs first; for example, women should be accepted in the assembly first. They shouldn’t be given hard work. Their superiority should be accepted. The equality should be removed, this is important. By the force of quality, beauty, by the force of the good morality, we must give superiority to women, just like we give superiority to the mothers, in a positive way.

For example foreigners have that; when a woman is getting out of the car, first the man gets out and opens the door and holds the hand of the woman and helps her to get out of the car. This shows her superiority. For example when a woman enters a room, the others stand up; this shows her superiority.

Everywhere we must show the superiority of  women; the superiority of  women is the beauty and the ornament of a civilization. This is morality, this is the superiority of morality.  This is a beauty.

This has to be done, and that’s the entire matter.

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We must trust in the mercy of God, He Who teaches compassion and affection

We must trust in the mercy of God, He Who teaches compassion and affection (23.01.2014)

Hell or Heaven? by YongL

We must trust in the mercy of God, He Who teaches compassion and affection

Excerpt from Mr. Adnan Oktar's Live Conversation on A9TV dated January  23th, 2014

(Viewer’s letter) “I am a 16-year-old atheist. It seems wrong for God to burn non-Muslims. It seems wrong to burn a Christian because he is from a different part of the world. If God knows the future, He will know that Christians will not be Muslims. If God does not intervene in that, it means that He will not punish everyone for their own free will. Or everyone will eventually be Muslims.”

Everyone will be a Muslim in the time of the Mahdi insha’Allah.

What you are discussing is part of secret knowledge [ilm al-ladun] from God. Do you know what that means? You are now watching me on television. How far away is the TV from you? You will say, “2 or 2.5 meters away.” But I am actually in your brain. Look, that is secret knowledge from the Presence of God. Where will you see hell? In your brain. All right, hell does exist on the outside, but you will see the hell in your brain. Paradise does exist on the outside, but you will see the paradise in your brain.

You cannot know who will go to hell or not. God is not obliged to burn people. “I will burn them,” He says, but He may not. God has no such obligation. You cannot say, “Why are you not burning someone?” May God forbid. He may make you think He is burning someone whereas He really is not. You imagine you will not burn, but you may go to hell, may God forbid. One imagines he is one of the saved, but he may go to hell.

You must trust in the mercy, affection and mind of God. Because it is He Who creates your compassion and logic. It is God Who makes you ask this question. You did not ask it. God asked it. But you are unaware of it. God makes you ask it, and God makes me answer it. These are secret knowledge from the Presence of God. You see people burning in a film, but they are really burning in your brain. How do you know that people will burn? Why should God have any obligation? But He keeps His word. God says “I will burn him.” Does he burn? Yes. But does he burn in the literal sense or not? You must leave that to God. That is secret knowledge from the Presence of God.

He promises paradise, and believers see paradise. Believers also see hell. They come to the very edge of hell. Everyone falls to his knees to feel the awe of God. Then believers are told, “Come here.” There is a light in front of them and to the right. They are in a vehicle. Like a small car. God says there are drivers by their sides. That is a very significant expression. Exactly the same as today’s cars. He says there is a light to the front of them and to the right. That happens with cars, doesn’t it? And he says there are drivers by their sides. They are very comfortable. He says they have a strong hope. This is something unique to the believer. No unbeliever can enter such a vehicle. Unbelievers are left on the ground. “They have much hope,” says God. When the gates of paradise open, believers enter. “Salam alaykum. You are welcome.” “Peace be upon you.” Then paradise is closed off again and that is it. You are there for all eternity.

But hell is necessary. If one does not see hell, one cannot properly appreciate paradise. That is why Almighty God put Hazrat Adam (pbuh) in paradise first. Look, it is quite explicit, and you can see secret knowledge from the Presence of God here. Then He says He will take him out of there. People normally remain in paradise for all time, don’t they? He says He will send him out because he has failed to abide by the rules of paradise. In other words, “You did not keep your promise.” There is a threat here, too.

The people of paradise live in it according to its rules and traditions. There is still the fear of God in paradise. They apply the manners they have learned. There is no rebellion. They are terrified because they know this world. They have seen hell and they know this world. They do not want to return to this world or to go to hell. That is why they kiss the ground in paradise. Because it is a very fine and comfortable place. Can one ever tire of it? That is impossible because they see hell, they can see it on a screen whenever they want. They do not like this world, either. “Shall We send you back,” He asks. “No, no, no,” they reply. Nobody wants to come back to this world again. The idea of returning to this world is a torment for people who have seen paradise. It would be like saying, “I am going to take you to hell.” No Muslim wants to come back to this world.

Ask if our viewer has understood what I have been saying.

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There are degrees of secret knowledge from the Presence of God. If you want to learn more, that could harm your mind. This is enough for you.

It is God Who teaches us compassion. We do not know compassion. It is God Who teaches us the logic here. Our friend here is saying what God wants.

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Hazrat Mahdi (as) will also show compassion to unbelievers as potential Muslims

Hazrat Mahdi (as) will also show compassion to unbelievers as potential Muslims

Distribution of Wealth  

"He will fill the earth with fairness and justice just as it had been filled by oppression and injustice.
The inhabitants of the heavens and earth will be pleased with him.
He will distribute wealth equally."
At this point a companion asked what 'equally' meant so the Prophet (saas) replied:
"Equally, between the people, and Allah will fill the hearts of the nation of Muhammad with richness and his justice will satisfy them until he sends a messenger saying:
'Who is in need of wealth?'
None except one man will stand and say, 'Me'.
So he will say: 'Go to the treasurer and tell him that Al Mahdi orders you to give me wealth.'
So the treasurer will say to him:
'Fill with your hands!'
And he will put it in his clothing then tie it.
Then he will become contrite and say:
'I was the most greedy among the nation of Muhammad, and he will attempt to return it but it will not be accepted, and it will be said to him:
'We do not accept what we have given.'
And so he (Al Mahdi) will remain seven, eight or nine years -- then, there is no goodness left in life nor yet in living after him.
(Reported by Abi Said Al Khudri in the reference of Abi Dawood, Al Hakim, At-Tirmizi, Ahmad, ibn Hibban, Muslim, Al Tabarani, Al Barudi and Abu Nuaym in his forty Hadith concerning Al Mahdi.)


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